Unfashionable as it may be to say; men need to stop dating losers. What exactly that means may be hard to define. When women deride a man as being a “useless loser,” what they really seem to be complaining about is someone who blindly, uncompromisingly places his own prerogatives above all else, often at the expense of others. The girl with the loser boyfriend who won’t get a job because it would “cut into practice time with the band” is actually saying that if he would compromise a little, they could probably realize some goals that would benefit them both equally. The same thing holds true the other way around.

While career and ambition is far from the only way in which being a loser can manifest itself, it’s definitely common, and prominent. The kind woman in Kelowna was raised to believe that she can (and did) do well in school, get education, and then go forth into the world and make her mark.  She breaks down barriers to pursue her career and become a breadwinner for her and her two daughters. So it’s understandable that she doesn’t waste her time on boys who are unsure. There is no way she will be settling for a man who doesn’t even give her the time of day. She has a plan for her future and if you are unsure about your future with her, forget it because she doesn’t have time to waste on silly games. If she chooses you, then you are pretty darn special and you should know it.

Independence is her middle name. She knows what it’s like to not be in a relationship and she’s perfectly okay with that feeling. Because of that, she will give you space when you need it because she will need hers too. On the flip side, she won’t push you away. She knows what it is to be in a relationship, and she highly respects love and commitment. She is a faithful woman and she is a dependable woman who will be honest with what is on her mind. She prioritizes what is worth arguing over. She certainly picks her battles, but when it matters she will always talk to you about what she’s feeling.

She has opinions. This Kelowna woman is always up for a healthy debate and she will let you know exactly where and when she wants to eat dinner and compromise if you aren’t up for the same- none of this “oh I don’t care you pick” attitude. She will challenge you. Yes, she can be emotional and yes, she can be opinionated. But yes, she will challenge you and make you a better man, while you make her a better woman. She deals with stressful situations on a daily basis, so she likes a man who is up to a challenge, but who can also just relax with her at the end of a hectic day. She still wants romance. Although she is a super busy woman and is stressed out all of the time, the Kind woman of Kelowna wants you to surprise her with romantic gestures every once in awhile, just like any other woman. Surprise her with dinner, a glass of wine, and a bubble bath when she comes home from work. She will love it and thank you later for it.

Although she takes control, she still allows you to be a gentleman. This means holding the door open for her, bringing her flowers, and buying her dinner every once in awhile. Even though she is a feminist, chivalry isn’t dead in her eyes and she wants her man to be able to lead. She loves making her significant other happy. She will go the extra mile to pick up your favourite food on the way home from work, give a back massage if you’ve had a hard day, and show up to save the day if your car needs a jump. She believes in charitable giving, when she’s too busy with work to give her time, she’ll be sending a cheque along. She believes in hard work and helping others, and she has instilled those beliefs in her daughters so that now that they’re out on their own in the world, they can continue the tradition of always helping others.The kind woman in Kelowna doesn’t believe in being lazy. She doesn’t deal with things like that. Her life motto is, “work hard play hard” and she will inspire you to be just as hard-working as she is. If you’re too lazy to put dishes in the dishwasher, you will get called out for it. She believes in people’s fullest potential.

Not only is the Kind woman in Kelowna super-smart, ultra-stylish, crazy sweet and supremely capable, but she is also a seriously kind person. She has a busy life, but a fantastic one. The Kind woman in Kelowna is a strong woman, and it will take a strong man to win her heart. If you think you’re that man;

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