As curvy girls, society may give us reason to feel insecure about matters of the flesh, especially those that involve getting naked. But this couldn’t be further from the truth. We possess certain assets that not only make sex amazing for us — but also for our partner. Giddy up, boys, there’s nothing better than a curvy girl in bed!

1. We’ve got more cushion for the pushing. Certain sex positions are less abrasive on the male pelvis with a curvier woman. The impact of thrust is absorbed, which allows a man to stroke intensely with minimal risk of injury for either partner. Sex positions that bring the pelvis of both partners close together (doggie style, woman on top, bridging) feel better when used with women with more developed lower bodies, says sexpert Tyomi Morgan (link is external). In short, curvier women are able to handle deeper, longer, more intense strokes, ie. “she can take it”.

2. Men are instinctually attracted to us. Men are visually stimulated by nature, and the sex appeal of woman is dependent on her ability to bear healthy children. A curvier woman with larger breasts, wider hips and a “juicy” booty triggers an instinctual attraction and desire to procreate, says Morgan. “She is viewed as being able to not only bear strong children but also to nurse them as well (wide hips/large breasts). This fact alone arouses sexual energy and causes erections almost instantly. Maintaining a strong erection is what ensures a sexual experience is satisfying for both partners and curvier women have the best visual motivation,” says Morgan.

3. Our bodies are amusement parks. Curvier women have more surface area to explore and typically the best areas to explore are major erogenous zones. The butt, breasts, hips and thighs are areas that when touched with intention, arouse sexual energy and can be used in several sexual practices, says Morgan. “Body worship, a common practice in the BDSM lifestyle, is a love for and worship of body parts; typically legs, feet and asses are worshiped by licking, sucking, kissing and rubbing these parts. Body worship can arouse both partners.

Breast sex is also an option with curvier women. It may not be a regular practice for many couples but breast sex can serve as a form of foreplay and a way to bring a new angle to fellatio. All of these variations of sexual practices help to extend the sexual experience when used as foreplay before intercourse,” says Morgan. Safe to say curvy girls are a body of fun.

4. Our shape enhances certain sex positions. Curves are fluid, meaning when her body moves they move with her. In certain sex positions, like girl on top and doggie, sexy body parts move with each thrust given. “When erogenous zones shake, jiggle or ripple it drives a man wild, causing his sexual energy to spike while becoming more aroused. Another appealing trait of doggie style is the sound a large bum makes when slapped against a man’s pelvis. it’s yet another trait that arouses a man during the act,” says Morgan.

5. We’ve got loads of confidence. Curvy girls are better in bed if you’re curvy and confident, says dating expert Laurel House (link is external). Embrace that ass, those breasts, and the soft skin on your stomach! “Let him grab, squeeze, and suck the extra skin. It’s a total turn-on for him! If, however, you attempt to hide those feminine curves by avoiding certain moves and positions that might accentuate your assets, you’ll be taking away from the experience and pleasure for both you and him,” says House. Move your body without shame or fear of how your skin folds or shakes.

6. We’ve got more to grab onto. It’s a fact, most men want to have some skin to fondle in the sack. “They don’t want to feel like they are sleeping with their little brother so a feminine body makes the experience even more sexy for him!” says House.

7. We’re better at cuddling. “Curvy girls are awesome in bed, especially when they’re body-confident! We’re cuddlier and snugglier, and all that extra physical contact just makes for a much more intimate, connected experience even when it’s just a quickie,” says Kelly Shibari (link is external), the first-ever plus-size cover model for Penthouse Forum.

8. We’re not afraid to laugh. Many curvy girls who own their bodies also have a great sense of humor, which definitely makes for so much fun in bed, says Shibari. “We like to laugh and people forget that laughing can be an aphrodisiac!” Shibari says.

9. We’re less judgmental. Curvy girls who are sex-positive and are confident about their bodies tend to be just as accepting of partners who are bigger, or have other body hang-ups of their own, says Shibari. This makes for an all-round fun sexual experience, because you’re able to let go and just have fun!”