Everyone, hopeless romantic or not, starts off as blank slates. As humans, we naturally like to see the best in people, so we enter the dating world giving A+’s to all the men we encounter. And as they begin to disappoint us, we begin to subtract points from their perfect score.

For this reason, it’s easy to go from hopeless romantic to complete cynic, but it’s incredibly difficult to transform from complete cynic back to hopeless romantic.

Somehow, though, I did. I made the switch for the better. I am still heartbroken, but that doesn’t mean I can’t appreciate the good in all those little moments filled with lots of love.

Here are all of those little things that restore my faith in love:

1. When I watch an old couple shoot the sh*t like it’s 1999.

The old couple who sits in the same booth of the same old cafe every weekend and shares the same banana split with the same old toppings is #RelationshipGoals.

Seeing them can’t help but warm my heart.

2. When the token tough guy melts like silly putty in a woman’s hands.

There’s only one thing that turns the tough guy into a wondrous, sensitive, caring individual (and no, it’s not the gym): love.

A true, compassionate, selfless bond with a woman who is the tough guy’s world is the only thing that will break down his walls, and that’s an incredible thing.

3. When I had a crush on someone at the job I just started.

I walked into work expecting a whole new set of tasks, not a whole new set of man candy. Little did I know that my broken heart would be revived with just one look at that cute office guy.

I’m not going to act on it (because I know better), but it’s the principle that matters. There are still smart, cute nice guys out in the world.

4. When I see a couple who is mismatched looks-wise.

When the guy is significantly hotter than the girl or the girl is significantly hotter than the guy, I know they’re together because there’s something there stronger than the powers of physical attraction. That thing is love in its realest, rawest form.

5. When Taylor Swift actually started making sense to me.

I used to think T-Swift was foolish in believing in the fairytale. I used to think she sounded stupid amongst the honest, soul-bearing likes of Katy Perry and Kings of Leon.

Ms. Swift is no longer sappy and misinformed. She is dead-on.

6. Airport hellos and goodbyes.

There are hardly any places more romantic than an airport. Two people previously separated by long plane rides and vast oceans make their way back to each other and love each other even more than they did before.

Distance made their hearts remember why life is worth living — for love.

7. When I see a guy take his coat off and put it around a woman’s shoulders.

This one is a small reminder of big importance: Chivalry is not dead, and romance is alive and well.

Putting a coat on a woman’s shoulders is such a little thing, but it’s also so wonderfully sincere that it speaks volumes.

8. When I see a guy sitting alone at the mall

…Because I know he’s there with his girlfriend, and he wants nothing to do with clothes, shoes or anything mall-related. He just loves her AF.

9. When I see the look that one of my best girlfriends gives to her boyfriend.

That look is everything. That look is the look of all looks. It’s the look we envy. It’s the look that signals it’s “meant to be.”

10. When I make my morning coffee and a man makes a comment about my affinity for pumpkin spice.

He isn’t asking me out on a date, but he’s letting me know he’s open to meeting new people. And there are few things more refreshing than seeing a man in a big city take a few small moments to let a woman know he isn’t that busy.

11. When I hear a story about how people’s parents met.

In a land sans dating apps and f*ckboys, hearing stories of organic romance enlivens my soul and brightens my heart.

12. When I see a couple at the pet store, and they consider getting a pet.

They’re thinking about expanding their family. They’re not making a baby, but they are taking baby steps toward their future — and there’s nothing more romantic than forward thinking.

13. When someone told me I’m “growing into my own, and it’s sexy.”

I’d like to be clear that a woman, not a man, told me this.

Now, I know what you’re thinking: What could a woman complimenting you on your personal growth have anything to do with believing in love again?

Well, it’s an indirect path to finding love. It’s a flicker of hope — that if I’m well on my way to being my best self, then I’m also well on my way to finding the best person for me.

[via Elite Daily]